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Find any straight male yoga / pilates / meditation instructor in SF, and I guarantee you he has no shortage of potential romantic partners.

This is not exactly a transcendence of class or income level — it’s just that that particular industry is actually considered absolutely everyone’s romantic prospect as a point of culture.

However, the man would also have to appeal to them in some way.

There is a certain level of chemistry that women typically seek out when they are picking men.

In descending order of frequency, they werea) He had to be successful and ambitious.b) He had to be taller than herc) He has to have emotional intelligence / be mature / respectful / feminist I’ll tackle these in the opposite order: Although this was the third priority, it was the single most common disqualifier.

Most often, when I asked single women, “Well, what about the dozens the single men you’re friends with? They’re fun to hang out with, but not serious significant other material.” So, that one’s interesting.

In 1989, in what was probably the largest study on the issue of age gap in relationships, David Buss surveyed people from 37 cultures and 6 continents.Many heterosexual Black men are genuinely clueless as to how their dating “preferences” are based on anti-Blackness more than love or interest in anyone not Black, and how this anti-Blackness is shaped intraracially and interracially because of how White supremacy, internalized racism, colourism, Eurocentric beauty myths as standards and misogynoir impact them and are proliferated by them. Because Whiteness is set in juxtaposition to Blackness and mixed Black women as well as other women of colour who aren’t Black are placed on a sliding scale of what is considered not only beautiful but worthy in relation to how close to White they appear, can assimilate to be or how far away from Blackness they are, ultimately even when Black men decide that a biracial woman, a fair skinned Asian/Latina woman or even a darker woman of colour yet lighter than dark Black women is “better" than a Black woman, they are engaging in White supremacist logic, which by design is anti-Black. By continual anti-Blackness propagandist messages (for centuries) being pumped out through media, marketing, art, legislation, and general popular culture, avoiding absorption of these messages is futile. What is possible is to learn how to recognize, deconstruct, challenge and reject these messages.What is possible is to learn how to create and embrace counter-messages that speak to the wholeness of Black people. And many Black men are incredibly unequipped for this.That is, unless you just assume she is his daughter.Let’s be clear here: when I say “dating older men,” I am not referring to Anna Nicole Smith and her “elderly oil tycoon” J. Nor am I talking about older men taking advantage of naïve 18-year old girls because they are easy to impress and fall prey to seduction tricks.

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